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Often, when we talk about adopting and developing skills, we think of math, spelling, riding a bike, learning a foreign language. But the transformation in areas like dating, thriving in marriage, writing a book, starting a business, requires a different type of change, a different type than knowing nine times nine, or remembering a formula.
Transformation is a radical shift at the identity level. At the identity level, you're not dealing with what you do, but with who you are. It's an ontological shift at the level of your being.
Identity involves many pieces. Your identity is laid over a scaffolding. The scaffolding of identity is all the cherished core beliefs that you hold true, that govern your worldview, what you think is right and wrong, your ethical models. It also involves your values, which is how you prioritize spending your time and your energy, in particular where you put your attention, for how long, and why. It's also the environment you surround yourself with. That means your circle of friends, but also the books you read, the situations you put yourself in.
All of these are the foundational structures that your identity hangs on and your being emerges out of. But all of these can be subsumed in thinking about what is the North Star, or the orienting principle, that is pulling your life in a particular direction. It is like a strange attractor from a future state that you vision and dream, it’s a teleological imperative that pulls you in a particular direction.
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Identifying what you value is one of the highest leverage things that you can do as a person. It's incredibly important to identify what you value, and also, to identify how you value things. In this manual, we will talk about value, how to identify your values, how to value things, and how to get more value in your life and in your business.
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This model will help you understand how to adapt better, how to turn change and adversity into success, and what that can mean for your life. This mental model can (and should) be applied across domains, from personal to professional, to increase your ability to not only survive, but to thrive through change and stressors.
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Often, when we talk about adopting and developing skills, we think of math, spelling, riding a bike, driving, or learning a foreign language. But the transformation in areas like dating, thriving in marriage, writing a book, starting a business, requires a different type of change, a different type than knowing nine times nine, or remembering a formula. Transformation is a radical shift at the identity level and we are dissecting it in this manual.
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Humans have evolved over tens of thousands of years in an environment that is very different than the one we live in now. During this process, we developed unconscious biases which helped us survive in those tough environments, but can hinder us in today’s modern society. By recognizing those biases we can make infinitely better decisions.
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